Ok let me start out by saying it really puzzles me how men and women act towards one another these days....and whats so sad about it...it's getting worse and worse! Now I know how guys are and I have study women quite a bit and
Men and Women both have some of the same traits! Read on....

Women
Ok have you ever really sat down and asked yourself why you really can't find a good man? Are you blaming what happen in your last relationship on the guy who dogged you out, cheated on you or what ever he did that you keep blaming him and not looking at what roll you played in that? Ok it takes two to tango! Well let me tell you women something about men and what you can do to get a good one and keep him! Rather you believe it or not men are very simple!

Ok first lower your standard a little....see most women seem to live in this fairy tale world where they think some knight and shining armor is going to come down from heaven or someplace rescue her and you go off and live happily ever after. Hello wake up call...come back to the real world, because that will never happen!! It's a fantasy land and it don't excites! Its really sad how when women are little you are told all the fairly tales and you grow up believing in them, and they are just not there! Now there are good men out there but most are far from knight and shining armors!;-)

Ok what I don't understand is why women keep doing the same thing with men over and over again! Ok listen up! Like I said first of all women you have to lower your standards on finding the cute, fine, gorgeous guy that you want to get so you can show all your girlfriends! Trust that same guy you are trying to get and show off, will be the same guy that your girlfriend(s) will be trying to sleep with! Yes it happens all the time and it might have had happen to you already! If it has did you learn from it? Secondly, most women want the same cute, gorgeous, cute guy so don't you think that it will be more likely for that gorgeous cute guy to cheat on you? It's happens all the time!

What sad is most women don't learn from there mistakes and going after the same kind of guy and keep getting the same results! Look if you are not that fine yourself, or you don't have the nicest body...why do you think you should have this extra fine man? Oh I forgot to show off to your girlfriends right? Look it's not that many fine, gorgeous guys in the world, God didn't make everyone like that so, there are alot of just average GOOD MEN..out there just wondering why women don't want to talk to them, that will treat you alot better then a gorgeous guy will! And he is not likely to cheat on you, you know why because every other women in the world is not throwing themselves at him! And why do women disrespect each other so much? If women would start respecting each other more alot of these issues with men that women have would cease! When I use to go to clubs it would amaze me how one women would see another women giving me her phone number, she would stop me and wait..you didn't get my number! Come on now, that's crazy!

Closing
There are a lot of good men in the world, but if you are so caught up in finding this fine gorgeous guy who will treat you right and will not cheat on you...you know what...it's probably not going to happen! I mean live in the real world, because if do fine him, 9 times out of 10 he is going to cheat, and it has nothing to do with you...its just so many women will be throwing themselves at him, sooner or later he will give in. Man are just not as strong as women are when it comes to turning down the opposite sex! If you haven't figure that one out you, you have alot of pain to endure before you finally realize it!

(CHEATING)
Wow now this seems to be a really big deal for women. I mean this has cause many heart breaks and has even change some women lives for the worst, which is really really sad!! Let me just say this about cheating and maybe you will not take it so hard if it happens to you, or happens to you again! Ok first I have been in love and I know it's hard when someone hurts you, I've been there done that and learn from it! But look, love is one thing but just giving up on yourself, and being depress and letting it change you life for the worst is another.

Look, you can not control what someone else does....Let me say that again! YOU CANNOT CONTROL WHAT SOMEONE ELSE DOES...you can only control what you do. So bottom line is, if you have no control over what someone else does, why let the ruin your life or almost ruin it? First of all in most relationships once you are together for a while people get relax, and start expecting things from that other person. You really can't do that these days...it's not like the old days....we have way to many ways to meet people these days.. we have the internet, cell phones, texting, youtube and dozens of other ways that technology has allowed us to communicate and meet people.

Here is something I want to share with all women...do this for yourself the next time you get into a relationship or are in one now...say to yourself well this person is human I am dating, and humans do make mistakes all the time...just say to yourself this person might cheat on me, but if he or she does its not the end of the world! Life will go on, and you should too. Maybe this way if it does happen, it wont be so devastating to you if you have already told yourself it may happen in the first place.

Remember you can only control what you do, not what anyone else does! And if you have been hurt before, most of us have....get over it and let it go! While you are sitting around mooping, all upset...he has went on with his life, found another women and you are sitting around wondering why!! Learn from it and move on....life goes on! They will go on and you should too! It seems like there are alot of people who come to my profile but don't say anything...well maybe I can give you something REAL to think about while your looking!;-) Remember guys are pigs and 99% of what guys do, they do to impress and to get women....so that means you control how men act to get you, so use your control to make it work for you! Trust me guys will conform to it..they always have!

This really all balls down to self love! If you don't have any, how do you expect someone else to have some for you? If you have let someone take your self love and yourself esteem away..take it back! You can do that! Good men want positive strong good women! If a man has a problem with you loving yourself and being strong...run for the hills..he surly has some issues!! Stay tune for more of this!

Thanks for reading and I hope this helps someone. I know no one wants to here real talk, but life would be alot more easier if people lived in the real world and not the fake one!

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